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She keeps asking for money after I left Bangkok, what to do?

By AussieJake VIP 2026.04.28 09:00

So I just got back from Bangkok, had a great time but now I've got this girl messaging me asking for money. We had a bit of fun while I was there, but I didn’t think it would turn into this. It’s kinda awkward now, and I’m not sure how to handle it.

Do I just ignore her? Should I tell her straight up to stop? I’m not really comfortable with this whole money thing, and I didn’t see it coming. Any advice from you lot who’ve been in a similar spot?

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ShanghaiLee

04.28 11:00

Bro, this situation is actually quite common. I suggest you clarify your stance first and don't let her think that you will continue to give her money. If you don't want to keep in touch, just tell her directly and don't leave any misunderstandings. The nightlife experience in Thailand is great, but you have to make your own decisions about what happens afterward. Do you think she genuinely wants to be friends or is she just interested in the money?

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PierreParis

04.28 11:01

Honestly, it's not surprising. Bar girls often play on that. If you want to cut ties, be clear and direct, otherwise it will become a source of stress. It's not like in Paris where you can just move on.

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BangkokVet

04.28 11:30

Man, you hit the nail on the head. It’s all about being clear, or you'll just keep getting hounded. Most of these girls are down for the cash, not the friendship. Better to cut ties if you're not feeling it.